Geek/Nerd --- Discussion - Part 2

[ALLISONX (deleted)]

Greetings my fellow geeks and nerds.
These fun and exciting questions are for an exploratory research project for my sociology degree. Please give your opinion and voice about the questions! This is not a formal survey, but responses will be confidential in the paper. Have fun and feel free to touch on any topic related to your ------ity!

7. Do you feel that masturbation is satisfying alone? Meaning no partner is necessary to please yourself --------?




8. How do you feel about monogamous relationships? How do you feel about the institution of marriage in relation to ------ relationships?





9. Are submissive/dominant roles relevant in your ------ relationships?






10. Would you describe yourself as “sexually adventurous? (if so, how?)





11. What are your feelings about safe --- and contraceptives?




12. Are there any connections between you identification as a geek/nerd and your ------ experiences or preferences?





13. Anything else youd like to say¦¦

- allison

[ataivaskathryn]

`7. Do you feel that masturbation is satisfying alone? Meaning no partner is necessary to please yourself --------?
Not really, I crave that special connection you make with another person when you have ---.

8. How do you feel about monogamous relationships? How do you feel about the institution of marriage in relation to ------ relationships?
I've been in an open, polyamorous relationship and I really didn't like it. The three of us were cuddling one time and suddenly my boyfriend and his other girlfriend start having --- right there in front of me, it was kind of traumatic. I don't believe you have to wait for marriage to have sex, but I do believe you should really only have --- with someone you love and are in a relationship with.

9. Are submissive/dominant roles relevant in your ------ relationships?
Kind of, I'm completely submissive so its easier when my partner is dominant, but I have had --- with another submissive just fine.

10. Would you describe yourself as “sexually adventurous? (if so, how?)
I guess I am a little bit. I enjoy outdoor sex, toys, and I'm interested in trying cosplay and bondage with someone I trust.

11. What are your feelings about safe --- and contraceptives?
I don't like using condoms because I don't like how they feel, but unless I know my partner is clean I would have to insist. I started taking birth control before having --- because an unwanted pregnancy is bad for the relationship and the baby. I would like to have a baby in the future- when I'm prepared for it.

12. Are there any connections between you identification as a geek/nerd and your ------ experiences or preferences?
Yes, I suppose so. I'm only attracted to other nerds or geeks. Usually, the best way to turn me on is to do something nerdy. I also can't stand idiots, no matter how attractive they are.

[videogamergirl (deleted)]

7. Do you feel that masturbation is satisfying alone? Meaning no partner is necessary to please yourself --------?
Actually no. I'd really like another person




8. How do you feel about monogamous relationships? How do you feel about the institution of marriage in relation to ------ relationships?
I think you should be with ONE person not a billion haha as for marriage I'm iffy on that..want to one day but it seems stressfull





9. Are submissive/dominant roles relevant in your ------ relationships?
BOTH! I think I might havt the makings of a dominatriix haha but I like my partnert to be agressive






10. Would you describe yourself as “sexually adventurous? (if so, how?)
Not sure whatyou mean by this. But dfinetly adventurous and desire for new things.





11. What are your feelings about safe --- and contraceptives?
ABSOLUTELY! Unless you want little kiddos.



12. Are there any connections between you identification as a geek/nerd and your ------ experiences or preferences?
I tend to go for more nerdy guys? pretty much and iiits opened my eyes to new things.

[themetalogist (deleted)]

`7. Do you feel that masturbation is satisfying alone? Meaning no partner is necessary to please yourself --------?

Hmm, satifying perhaps! I mean, it can be fun, let your mind wander and all sorts of other things. Adding another person, however, its electric. Satisfying does not do that justice.




8. How do you feel about monogamous relationships? How do you feel about the institution of marriage in relation to ------ relationships?

I like the idea of marriage or rather the things implied with marriage more or less. Loyalty, love, the feeling of forever in you lover's arms is something to work toward I daresay. However, I'm not naive enough to say that it requires marriage, marriage requires it.



9. Are submissive/dominant roles relevant in your ------ relationships?

Oh my, its kind of funny how different I can be. Without being too descriptive I get a little dominant I daresay.




10. Would you describe yourself as -------- adventurous? (if so, how?)

Yeeeap, I'll try anything once. That's pretty much that, it boils down to doing things to make your partner happy even if it doesn't necessarily ring your bell. Course, pleasing your partner should, in fact, ring your bell.



11. What are your feelings about safe --- and contraceptives?

Awesome, way to go! There are particular taboos with not being safe which can be crazy awesome, but at the same time, risky business is risky business.


12. Are there any connections between you identification as a geek/nerd and your ------ experiences or preferences?

I dunno, first off, I'm a geek of immense quality. However, I don't necessarily think it colours my ------ preferences much though. Maybe in the sense that it would be particularly awesome if you could have --- with some character you've gotten attached to.



13. Anything else you'd like to say?

Sex is awesome, love is bettah. And yes, you can have them both! That is the power of yes.

[kron]

`7. Do you feel that masturbation is satisfying alone? Meaning no partner is necessary to please yourself --------?

Not really, theres nothing like hot sweaty bodies writhing around together.

8. How do you feel about monogamous relationships? How do you feel about the institution of marriage in relation to ------ relationships?

Open relationships can work but often get messy really fast when both people aren't as into the idea as eachother, personally I prefer something a little more exclusive for a long term relationship.
Marriange is a bit of a waste of time, It's ok for the tax breaks and as an overblown gesture I don't think you get any more effective but as a way to cement a relationship, I you think you need it then it probably won't last long.

9. Are submissive/dominant roles relevant in your ------ relationships?

It depends, in some relationships I've been wholly in control but I have been more submissive (In the relationship and the bed) when It seemed right. Experience and intellect take the lead most of the time and as for --- it's mostly down to whatevers more fun at the time.


10. Would you describe yourself as -------- adventurous� (if so, how?)

I suppose so, I've been dominant, submissive, explored bondage a little, had --- outdoors, with other people around, with toys and food
I experimented with same --- (didn't enjoy it much though keeping it been hetro since then). Positions really depend on where you are as to how practical and enjoyable they'll be but I tried a few (not sure if I know the names of them all... if some of them even have names...)



11. What are your feelings about safe --- and contraceptives?

They are important but like most men I do enjoy --- without a condom. I always make sure I have them though


12. Are there any connections between you identification as a geek/nerd and your ------ experiences or preferences?

I do tend to like women with glasses more, and I find I'm attracted to women more when i find out they share certain interests of mine


13. Anything else you'd like to say?

spoon, it's a great word that you can really drag out to make people look at you funny. SPoooooooooooooN!

[witchbaby (deleted)]

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