Sex?

[aquaticarcangel]

...I was curious to know what other people's views are when it comes to ---. I mean, I'm sure we all have our different opinions, depending on our beliefs, whether it be religion, personal views, or just how one is brought up in the family, etc. I'd like to know what others think.

So other than the fact that 'it feels good,' what are your views on sex? Is it important to you? Is it not important to you? Do you find it confusing? Troublesome, wonderful, pressure-some? etc.

(PS: I am not here to shove anything down your throat, and I hope you will be respectful enough to do the same, but I will eventually tell you my thoughts, either way =) )

[aquaticarcangel]

Hmmm... either I have stumped you all out of what you make of it just by questioning you, or no one is brave enough to post back.

[fringey]

aquaticarcangel wrote: Hmmm... either I have stumped you all out of what you make of it just by questioning you, or no one is brave enough to post back.



I think --- is important in a relationship, but friendship is just as important. Without friendship, --- is just kind of hollow and empty.

Patrick
a.k.a. Fringey, The Fringe Element
"A life lived without passion is a life not lived."

[aquaticarcangel]

Aha! So there is life here on Nerdpassions! ...I can assume there is life in the forums, at the very least.

Anywho, yes. Agreed. ^_^ Friendship is definately important while keeping a relationship. Its more meaningful if one were to keep it that way, or at least learn to understand and look at it in such a way. Strong bonds are always something worthwhile.

[humaira]

i think --- is one of the most important parts of a relationship.

[emh (deleted)]

I think --- is fantastic providing no one is being exploited or STIs passed on.

[jay1979]

I think --- is the greatest thing you can do with the one you're with. But I believe in "relationship only" though. Not going to do the casual thing with a stranger lol

[padgon (deleted)]

I believe we can agree that
1 - Its Natural.
2 - Its part of a relationship
3 - Thank you God for it

By “sex I dont mean “having --- or getting laid thats only the cherry on top of the cake. Only because a man is looking for a relationship, thats part of our ------ entity so its part of “sex. I agree that there can be empty --- but only when you are using your partner.

[stargirl2254_PREV (deleted)]

"Housework is like bad ---. Every time I do it I swear I will never do it again. Until the next time company comes." (Marilyn Sokol)

[backwoodsboy]

Well it's hard.... what no laughs? Yeah well it is, trying to balance a relationship with trying to get laid. Sure every guy says they want friendship and a deep relationship( hey some of us do) but no matter what, somewhere deep in our subconcious we wanna have sex, a lot!! It is troublesom worrisome and agitating, but does it feel good! lol! But it feels better if your in love or connected with your partner.

[christine70360_PREV (deleted)]

Lol. I cant wait till i find a guy that thinks relationships are more important then ---. But hey its probably my fault my relationship only end with ---.

[pyrathas (deleted)]

christine70360 wrote: Lol. I cant wait till i find a guy that thinks relationships are more important then ---. But hey its probably my fault my relationship only end with ---.

[damienstadler]

Loaded question in many respects! Speaking as a very religious person, I would like to wait until I get married [again]. Didn't really happen that way the first time, but hey, all for a second try. The only problem is, I have a libido only slightly lower than Hugh Hefner's, and the staying power to outlast all but the most oversexed females. Having been married once before [she went bipolar and left], I have some definite ideas about how I want my next major relationship to go, and --- is included somewhere in there in a MAJOR way. I need a girl who wants it as bad as I do, and I'll lose my celibacy bonus points gladly if I can find the right girl. [Besides, I'll earn them back later doing other stuff...and NO, religious people, I don't actually believe He keeps score....]

I need a relationship, and I want it with a Christian nerd, geek, or lover of same. SO someone start typing!

Damien

[kryss]

I know this may be a little wierd, but well, --- means VERY little to me. I've been with a couple of people, who at the time meant the world to me, and have to admit I only really did it because they wanted to. I'm more a kind of cuddle and kiss kinda guy. I mean sure, I love knowing i can pleasure someone like that, but it doesn't really do much for me...

[(deleted)]

hmm a relationship without --- is basically a good friendship...to me relationships require a min amount of compassion ...i guess u can have a relationship and instead of --- maybe have cuddling or w/e but meh..u can cuddle or stroke a friends hair...but not sleep with them...unless we are talkin friends ---- -------- :D