Sex?

[katieawesome]

padgon wrote: I believe we can agree that
1 - Its Natural.
2 - Its part of a relationship
3 - Thank you God for it

By “sex I dont mean “having --- or getting laid thats only the cherry on top of the cake. Only because a man is looking for a relationship, thats part of our ------ entity so its part of “sex. I agree that there can be empty --- but only when you are using your partner.



Couldn't have said it better myself :-)

[solaris888]

Sex is everything unless it is the only form of expression between two(or more) people.

If a relationship deprives one or both of the partners involved of this key element, the attraction, connection, etc. will crumble. It doens't matter if you are dating or if you are married, a relationship will not last without it.

If a relationship substitutes --- for other obvious needs of one or both of the partners, you get the same outcome.
Sex is great, but if it is the only element, it's not really a relationship is it? It's more of a temporary reprieve of boredom... in which case, I would consider her a f*&# buddy... IMHO.

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Tell me what you need; I'll tell you how to live without it.

[torric]

can't tell ya anything on something that i never had, so...

[choclety]

I think --- is a major part of a relationship. It's a past-time hobby. So many people do stuff because it's good for them or not good for them. Example: working out, exercising 5 day a week, smoking, drinking, or cleaning. Same with ---. If you find a person that you click with in many aspects and decide to have --- and it's not good at nall, it totally kills the feeling of could I see myself with this person. Some people don't do it a lot so maybe they could, but if you like the "act" then it's a problem that has to be solved.

[outoftimenow (deleted)]

sex is so important to relationships but is also dangerous... we are too dumb to use it but we have it so we might as well use it.
i dunno im confused about ---.

i wish i had somone lol... i think majority of people like ---... at least thats what the pole says... i hope some day i find my nerdy --- goddess... does that happen?

[darcnight (deleted)]

Sex is the only reason why we don't have to stay up all night looking at ----!

Ahem... Also, remember to wear protection and stick to one partner (unless it's ok with your partner to have a ---------) MFF not MMF (that would be sick!) LOL

[trondant (deleted)]

I'd say that --- is an aspect of a good relationship. A nice aspect, but still just an aspect.

[dairym]

I'm all for it. But only with someone I'm dating and, at that, someone I've been dating for a while. Just sucks for girls who really like sex, who happen to not be the kind of girls who sleep around. We're in a constant state of limbo! That's one of the biggest reasons I'm currently looking for a relationship. ;)

Myriad
dairyM

[mcbumman]

you really get to know someone during ---. if they are enjoying it and can't have a conversation during it, then they are just in it for it. you know you have a really great partner when you can relax, laugh, and really have a connection and a great time with your partner during --- and not just think its a physical act comitted within dating partners.

this does not just apply with people in dating relationships, it could also happen with really god friends.

thats just me tho.

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[bobnone_PREV (deleted)]

mcbumman wrote: you really get to know someone during ---. if they are enjoying it and can't have a conversation during it, then they are just in it for it. you know you have a really great partner when you can relax, laugh, and really have a connection and a great time with your partner during --- and not just think its a physical act comitted within dating partners.


I whole heartedly agree, I've only had --- with two people. One I was in a relationship with for 8 months, the other I had only met a week before. I have to say it is exponentially more meaningful when in a relationship. You get to know your partner on such an intimate level, you know each others sounds, movements, and sweat spots ; ) It just makes for all around better ---. And not to mention the sense of security you get for knowing that your partner is STD free.

Just wanted to add nerds do --- better than anyone else

Oh and I just read that you can get HPV/Oral Cancer if you brush your teeth and then perform oral --- on someone who has it. So... I'm having --- in relationships only from now on. Well or unless I've known the person for quite a while and have talked to them about being tested for STIs.

Here's the link (removed) third paragraph from the bottom.

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[huhney (deleted)]

sex is great with someone or by myself for me atleast

[d351]

`Sex can be complicated if you let it be. I'm for it either way, but then again, I don't have the social weight attached to --- that females get. The way I see it, being in a relationship is great when available, but the longer one waits before --- the more one's opinions are muddled by a repressed libido, often resulting in a sudden disappointment in a persons personality that would've otherwise been avoided.

[neomagna_PREV (deleted)]

`Well I have my own choice to wait till marriage for --- on a few points. Most important one was actually because one of my friends was dating this one girl that he thought really loved him, then found that all she wanted from him was --- and broke up with him. Really shattered the guy and took him a while to get back to dating again. Now the one's he's dating, he made he promise to not pressure him about having --- because he didn't want to get hurt again.

Personally, I do not condemn those who do not wait, I just have my own choice. If both peole involved really loved about one another and thought that they are responsible enough to take the consequences, then I think that it is alright.

If all else fails, I love this statement: "Don't have --- with someone you wouldn't share a bank account with." This is a good statement for me XD

[bellkana (deleted)]

For me it's not really about --- or not, it's about attraction. I personally just can't be with someone who isn't trying to get me in bed. Otherwise it's just friends. I like to know I'm wanted regardless of whether as a couple we've decided to have --- or not.

For me it's a when I'm ready thing. I'm not just to throw it at anyone. My virginity is kind of important to me, and not because of how I was raised or any religious reasons. I just need a lot of trust. Which is hard when I can be quite the ------ on occasion, but yeah.

Sometimes I'm pretty sure it's only my virginity holding me back. No matter how many times I hear it's natural (and I know that, don't ask me about my brown box ) and stuff, it's just a lot to throw out there for the first time. I think after that I'll be a lot easier. :3