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[cmdrsutherland (deleted)]

Hello everyone I don't know if anyone saw my post in the "New Introduction area" thread but I'm new here and saying hello. I'll also add in my description as well for further information in this post. Anyway here goes. And the description is not meant to offend anyone it's just my views on what I am looking for in a mate. Also helps the general knowledge of who I am to better understand me.


Alright what can I say here? Well I'm a geek who enjoys manners of geekery. Star Trek (I love it), Star Wars is good as well. Role playing is another big part of my life I personally play World of Darkness, Star Trek RPG and Dungeons and Dragons. Also I live in Stroudsburg PA just so any one whom may be interested knows of the general area they're looking. And please NO creepy stalkers thank you. Now is an area for you all to read and understand me better.

READ EVERYTHING BEFORE PROCEEDING TO CONTACT ME PLEASE.

I have strong morals and virtues that I do not break. Philosophy and or "deep" conversations are very important to me. I am not into politics I just want the world to be a better place. I have no established religion because I have my own beliefs and theories of the divine and what makes it all work. I do not have s----l relations with a person unless I am in love with them. I do not believe in one night stands. I believe love is something that should be nurtured and grown between two people who have reached that bond, or have a bond to grow to that point. I would like to get to know a person before engaging in any seriously involved relationship. I only ask for one thing in return from another person is that if I am honest, loyal, loving and devoted to them that I get the same in return. Also I do NOT have a car therefore I'd like the person to be accessible or at least willing to let me find a way to see them and her doing the same because I am trying to pay my way through college. If you don't like it then don't waste my time by contacting me. Make both our lives easier. Accept me for who I am that's the bottom line.

Answers to your questions. (F.A.Q.) (UPDATED AS OF 9-10-08 ) If you are asking these questions or wanting to know more about me then please read on.

Question: "What if I do/use drugs?"

Answer: Then I don't want to know you. I'd like to date someone who isn't fried all to hell and still has their wits about them.

Question: "Where you want to end up in life?"

Answer: I plan to move to Japan this country is a sinking ship and I'm going to a life raft. I don't like it when my hard earned money is taken by the government to kill people, invade foreign nations and spy on myself and the rest of the people of this country. Then again this plan is currently debatable.

Question: "Do you like drama?"

Answer: No if you are a drama queen who HAS to have some sort of stupid conflict or something of that sort every day of the week then you're talking to the wrong guy so get lost thank you.

Question: “What if I have an deathly fear of doctors and all other types of medical personnel?

Answer: Ok not to be mean but I seriously find this fear irrational and I honestly can't deal with it. I'm sorry I just can't I'm not a psychiatraist or counselor it's nothing personal just telling you the truth. And if it's because you don't trust your doctor then try to find another one there's more than enough of them out there.

Question: "Do you mind people with extreme mental issues?"

Answer: Yes, I do NOT want to be with an unstable person I'm sorry I'm a computer technician not a summer camp counselor or shrink. And quite frankly I don't have the patience it takes a very special person to deal with issues like that in a mate and I am not that person. Nothing personal just stating my limitations. I'm human not a god.

Question: "What if I complain and whine about you constantly?"

Answer: Then we shouldn't be together in the first place, get lost.

Question: "What if I go around drinking with other/strange men and put myself in situations where I can be hurt such as being taken advantage of or being raped?"

Answer: Then I want nothing to do with you. Because honestly if you don't have enough sense to take care of yourself and willingly put yourself in a situation where you can be hurt and or cheat on me then quite frankly I deserve better than you. Because that shows me that you cannot be trusted, you are not wise and basically have no sense. I don't go out drinking with other chicks so I basically expect the same in return. If it's a relationship equality is required.

Question: "What if I talk to my ex boyfriends and still am dating you?"

Answer: Quite frankly I don't talk to my ex's because it ended up badly. And with most women their former mates are ex's for a reason and it's usually a bad one so it really depends on the circumstances of how that relationship ended but overall I really don't appreciate it nor approve of it because it hurts. And I'd expect the same in return from her if I talked to my ex's. But as I said it really depends on the circumstances.

Question: "What if I am unstable and freak out on you over the littlest things and cannot hold a civil mannered conversation about something without yelling screaming assuming and causing the ninth level of hell to split open unto the Earth?"

Answer: Then you are way to emotional for me I don't like drama I want a normal relationship not an emotional roller coaster. As I will restate I'm a computer technician not a summer camp counselor or shrink.

Question: "What if I have a death wish?"

Answer: I state once again I want a normal relationship not an emotional roller coaster and I don't want to know you.

Question: "What if I don't appreciate you?"

Answer: Once again we shouldn't be together in the first place I know how to treat a woman hence I'd like to be appreciated for it. Not nitpicked and made to feel like an *ss for doing something nice.

Question: "Do you want children?"

Answer: Yes I want to raise a family later on in my life, so yes I want children. They are very important to me I am however not looking for a woman with children at this current time in my life. I am 22 years old and no where near ready to raise a child especially one that isn't mine. Most women trap men like that with the sympathy card of being the single mother. I am not saying all women with children do this but a lot do and it makes it difficult to sort out the liars from the ones with a legitimate problem. I will most likely be more open to dating a woman whom has children when I am older 25 or 26, these age numbers also being when I'd like to have children with the woman I love.

Question: "Are you looking to have S-- tonight?"

Answer: I restate once again no I am not looking for a piece of *ss I am looking for a long term in love relationship. A person to grow with and fall in love with. Keep your mouse in the cage and find another pogo stick to hop onto because there are plenty of men out there who are looking for a piece of *ss. And I am not one of them so your barking up the wrong tree so get lost.

Question: "What if I have STD's?"

Answer: Nothing personal but I'm clean and healthy and intend to stay that way. I eventually want to fall in love with someone and hopefully spend our lives together. And yes I'd like children I state once again. And if you do not believe that I am clean we can go get tested together. I do not lie I state once again. So if you have an STD I am not interested. Before anything of a s----l nature is to take place getting tested together is MANDATORY.

Question: "How many people have you had S-- with?"

Answer: Only one person because I loved her and that was four years ago.

Question: "How do you feel about liars and lying?"

Answer: I hate being lied too especially on important issues in a relationship. I do not lie because I think it is wrong and if I hate it being done to me I do not do it to others. If a person lies to me on a very important issue such as cheating I'll excommunicate your worthless sorry lying *ss and I'd expect the same from my girlfriend if I did something as terrible as that.

Question: "Would you cheat on me or hurt me intentionally?"

Answer: With all of my heart no I would never do such a thing. I have been hurt intentionally and cheated on by the woman I loved. It tore me apart and I'd never inflict such pain on the woman I love. I just pray she does not do it to me.

Question: "Do you own a car?"

Answer: Sadly no I do not own a car at the moment I am working on paying for college.

Question: "Do you like older women?"

Answer: No I am not into cougar wives who are old enough to be my mother. I want to date a woman in my age range my range is 19-24. Not someone who is old enough to be my mother.

Question: "Do you like married women or women already in relationships?"

Answer: No you have to be single to date me I'm not going to destroy or get in between two people. Nor am I going to be a woman's next best option. You have to be single as I said before with no ties to other men such as being in a relationship or married.

Question: "Do you bite? Do you like to be bit?"

Answer: Yes I bite, and love being bit and scratched.

Question: "What's with the interest in Star Trek? Are you a geek?"

Yes I am a geek hence my interest in Vampire the Masquerade, World of Darkness, Dungeons and Dragons, Star Trek and computers and who knows what other geek things will come up.

Question: "Do you like ---------s?"

Answer: No I don't do ---------s or anything of that sort. I am committed to one woman and that is the woman I love or am dating. To get to the point of love. I like to get to know the woman through dates and such to form a relationship and bond. I am looking for love not a piece of *ss and I don't do legalized cheating which ---------s is categorized as in my book.

Question: "Do you do open relationships? Or do you want to be a part of one?"

Answer: I am NOT and will NOT date someone whom is in an "open relationship". I think it is disgusting and immoral. So don't think of using me as an "open relationship" pogo stick because it's not happening because it goes against everything I believe in and stand for you don't like it refer to the previous statement above which I will restate as follows: "If you don't like it then don't waste my time by contacting me. Make both our lives easier. Accept me for who I am that's the bottom line." I am a one woman man I do NOT share the woman I am dating or love with. Hence the no "open relationship" (legalized cheating in my book and thats the bottom line) So find another pogo stick to hop onto and get lost because I'm not interested.

Question: "What if I am a religious fanatic?"

Answer: If you are a religious fanatic that blows up straps bombs to your chest or destroys the "non-believers" and whatever the hell else religious fanatics do, GET LOST don't even bother contacting me, in fact stay the hell away from me. I don't want to wake up with a bomb strapped to my chest because I don't follow your fanatical religion, cult or whatever the hell else is out there.

Question: "Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal lord and savior? Do you want to go to my Church? Do you want to hear the word of God?"

Answer: If you are of a religious affiliation and wish to contact me to "convert" me, well you're better off putting a gun to your head and pulling the trigger and then trying to survive your brains being blown out of the back of your skull. Because you are not going to survive and I'm not going to convert so basically it's not going to happen. I live by the following commandment: "Thou shalt keep thy religion to thyself." Just because I am not of any organized religion doesn't mean I'm going to your hell because I don't follow your deity. I live a good life I do no evil, I do not lie, I do not cheat, I am honest, I am faithful, I am devoted to those I love and care about including the woman I love, I do what I can to help others I am kind to others and I am giving to others. I, like everyone else alive, is given the right to choose and I have made my choices when it comes to my beliefs on life and how I live it. If I am to go to a "hell" then well that was my choice. So don't try and "save me" because I'm not interested. Thank you.

FINAL NOTES

Sorry to come off as an *ss if I have but I tire of certain people whom fall in the more negative categories from contacting me because I apparently haven't made it clear enough so I am clarifying as fairly dumbed down as possible for those in the negative categories. It is not my intention to offend anyone I am just letting it be known whom you are looking at and thinking of getting to know. And yes final question and answer "Have you been contacted by people like this?" Yes I have it's rather creepy. Not all of them but certain ones made me add a few more filters such as blowing buildings up because of a religious fanatic. And no I have not met anyone like that on this site (yet and hopefully never) but a few but I have been contacted by the creepier ones such as cougar wives and women whom have tried converting me on other dating sites.

That's me summed up as best as I can think at the moment anything else you will probably find out later on. But I have my own moral code which I follow pertaining to love, helping others and doing what I can to make the world a better place and pretty much every aspect of my daily life. Once to be stated: "If you don't like it then don't waste my time by contacting me. Make both our lives easier. Accept me for who I am that's the bottom line."