Antmanbee, 38

Good listener seeks voice Some things about me: I'm a people person. I'm outgoing, but not an attention seeker. I love conversation, great company really is the spice of life. I'm a thinker. I reflect a lot on things and I have a strong set of values, but not traditional ones. I love stories. I tend towards sarcasm and dry wit. I get the most out of life when I am helping others achieve their potential.

I do voluntary work with young adults with learning disabilities and am in the process of completing a degree in Mental Health Nursing. I have a degree in Philosophy, which was deeply rewarding and I heartily recommend. I work part-time as a student support worker at other universities.

In a relationship once I commit I'm dedicated, devoted and thoughtful, although I may be a little cautious letting down the walls to get there. I'm a romantic, poetic, passionate person who draws a lot of strength from mutual nurturing love.

The kind of girl I'm looking for needs to be passionate too. Passionate about what they do, be it activist or artist. Someone with a questioning heart, who feels they can change the world. Or at least our world, through a shared, expansive, evolving love.