Things I enjoy doing with a 'special one' aren't too exciting, I'm not a particularly social creature, and I don't see the point of doing things equivalent to jumping out of a perfectly good airplane. I'm very introverted. I like to observe more than interact when it comes to crowds, so I'm never the life of the party. I prefer my time spent with good, close friends. Those who have shown themselves to be worth my time.
Some of the things I do really like doing with someone special are;
Movies, late night coffee, reading (both relaxing on the couch legs intertwined each reading our own book), cooking at home (I love to cook), walks on a sandy beach (I love being next to the ocean, preferably barefoot), and overall hanging out. I like to enjoy the TIME with a person; I don't see a need for events to make being with a person fun.
In my free time I play World of Warcraft, get pwned in HL2, and CoD4 (FPS, not so friendly to me). So yea, I'm a bit of a gamer, more computer nerd, as I'd rather sit and code than play most games.

I'm very driven in my job. It tends to consume my time. I design software (and implement it). It's fun for me. It's a constant intellectual challenge, something to keep my mind working and active.