Bigfatjackal, 42

I'm looking for a woman who shares my interests. shes just as nerdy or worse then I am. I've had problems with women who like "Me" but nothing of what I love or do. Its seems like and is indeed a major conflict of interest. I love a woman who can be strong enough and proud enough to tell me I'm wrong or march to her own tune but also one who can be vurnable enough and need me to where if she has a bad day she can come crawling into my arms and whimper in my ear to make the bad day go away. I'm not huge on looks. personality speaks volumes for me and since I have a more expanded view of what makes a women beautiful then most men... odds are. You DO look beautiful to me. I want a woman who is a mix of needy and strong I suppose. Too often I've been driven to exhaustion by women who need my affection, time, and attention 24/7. Sad fact: I have my own interests, life, and plans and I cant stop the world to watch TV with you when its a poor time to do so. Also I've been depressed into bitterness by women who take the reverse role and have no time for me. ever. In a relationship I need you, to "need me". I have to feel like I fulfill a purpose other then "person who is in room with you." Of course reading this thing you must be thinking by now "this guy must just want his way, when he wants it." well that's not the case. I LOVE to cuddle and talk and waste time and such. but I cant always do it or devote 100% of my attention to a female 100% of the time. I don't expect her to be any worse. You got a life and friends and interests? great! makes be feel better when I cant spend time with you, knowing your not lonely or bored. But also I need to be needed. If a woman shares my interests this doesn't seem like a problem. But truth is I'll give ANY woman a chance if she thinks she can be happy with what I put on the table. just remember. I'm a sculpture. not clay. you wont re-shape my life. just add on to it and make it better.