Gcharmon, 53

I’m the kind of guy you HAVE to get to know. You HAVE to. If you don’t, you’ll miss all my great qualities. If you went by simple surface attraction, you would probably move on to the next guy and never know how great I could be. Take a look at my picture. I’ve been told I am cute, but overall, I know I’m just…average. I’ll never model, and I’m not much of an athlete, I’m just average. So you have to sit down and actually talk to me, get to know what I’m really like. You might be surprised. You‘ll see that I am nice, and sweet and sensitive. You’ll see that I am a great listener. I can be supportive. I can even compliment you to build your confidence. I have found I have a great sense of humor and a quick wit, so I will take it upon myself to make you laugh. You may come to appreciate my creative spirit---I’m a writer, I seek a career as a novelist, and I am very serious about it. You’ll dig my adventurous nature and the interesting things I’ve done in my life---I can tell some stories. Average guys in general have some little known benefits. Whereas guys that are hot (and know it) use it to get anyone they want and treat you like dirt, average guys know when they have a good thing with someone, and they will try to keep it going. They’re loyal, honest, and will treat you right. I’m like that. Hopefully you’ll appreciate some of my surface qualities: I’m mature, not a thug, I don’t stink of cigarette smoke, I’m not a drinker, and I definitely do NOT do drugs of any kind (I am NOT “420 Friendly”---it IS a drug). I even have the basics, a job and a car, so I won’t be mooching off you all the time---I’ve heard the horror stories of the immature guys who take advantage. I’m not that guy. You might find I’m a catch. You just gotta take that first chance and get to know me.