Ihaveahat, 38

Eccentric Gent in Steampunk I regularly dress in victorian clothing complete with goggles bow ties and a top hat or bowler depending on the color of my suit for the day. I do historical fencing and bardic singing with the Society for Creative Anachronism. I'm designing and intend to build my own off the grid tiny house. I love to cook all kinds of food, though I myself am a semi-vegitarian making exceptions for seafood, hunted meat, and straight up predators. I read history, biographies, business, self-improvement and comics. I occasionally draw pulling inspirations from early pinups, anime, and caricatures. I play Dungeons and Dragons with an emphasis on the role play itself and I enjoy both 3.5 and 4.0. In the next 2-3 years I intend to have an alternative fuel vehicle, my own house, and to be starting design school for product design. I also love food from all around the world. I was trained in fashion with J.Crew and actually enjoy helping someone find a style that they are both comfortable in and that expresses how they want to be seen. I am a Unitarian Universalist and try to learn as much as I can from all religions with tolerance for everyone. That said I am not a Christian and have take lots of influence from native americans and eastern religion/philosophy. I don't watch much tv though I do religiously follow Dr. Who. I also make it a point to keep learning in my off time and have a wide variety of topics that I have some knowledge of.

I want a woman who can think for herself, because I need to be able to double check my judgement with someone. I need someone who will not hesitate to be honest. If I'm full of s--- I want to know it, if you really aren't that into me romantically I need to know that too. I love to talk and cuddle, though I am also fiercely independent. I would love someone who would share their ideas about the world with me, and who wouldn't mind me challenging those ideas. Part of me challenging them is my way of trying to understand them completely.