Rainbowmonkey, 35

Nerd Monkey Im Tom, I am fairly outgoing, always looking to meet people and just having fun out there in the world. My passions are music, console gaming (xbox360) and just enjoying life. I am single at the moment, so would be great to meet like minded people as myself to just have a laugh with. I'm a flirt and a tease, I have a fairly dark sense of humour and a air of mystery about me. I do consider myself to rather unorthodox, although i can be very orthodox when needed to be. The friends that I have are always there for me, although i have a very selective group of friends, I rather like having pocket of friends dotted around, because I do like to have my own time and space too. I'm not fussy about other peoples appearance, although i am rather picky when it comes to who I allow into my personal space. In the last three years I have had to cope with losing both of my parents due to illness, So going from a life living with both parents to a life living on my own in a space of a couple of years is rather difficult. I do find the positives in negative situations, which can be rather helpful. I like to smile and make other people smile too. I travel to Holland a lot and also like driving down to London too. I'm currently unemployed, however I am doing a lot of work to get a job, I'm not one to just sit around all day doing nothing. My family is a big part of my life, without these guys, I would of been lost. I'm very much independent and i would like to meet people who are also independent. Most of my past relationships failed because either I was too clingy or i felt the other person was to clingy. I do spend a lot of time looking at myself and questioning myself, which is a good but also bad habit. I'm not that much of nerd, although I do find geeky and nerdy women very attractive and I do think that geeks and nerds can be very adventurous and open minded. So if you would like to get to know me, chat or just up for some fun, drop me a message and i'll write one back (: