Sarcastic491, 43

Above all, I'm honest. I know what I'm looking for (although that doesn't mean I have a list of "must have/have nots"). I'm shy at first, but friendly, and people generally seem to think I have a great sense of humor. I give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise.

I believe you learn from the past, and plan for the future. I believe in long talks late into the night, slow ------- kisses that take your breath away, and not being able to stand the time you spend apart from that special girl. I believe in life, liberty, and happiness. I believe in compromise. I believe in commitment. And above everything else, I believe that love is the most important thing that can happen in your life.

Describing myself is a difficult thing to do. I am a lot of things. I have my flaws, as everybody does. Part of what makes a relationship great, is discovering everything about a person, both good and bad, and loving all of it. There are a few things about myself I'd change if given the chance, but mostly I'm comfortable with who I am. I'm not perfect, but I believe myself to be a great guy. I'm more interested in who you are than what you look like. The soul of a person is what counts.

As for who I'm looking for, I know it, but I don't like putting it into words. I feel it limits things too much, and an otherwise great girl will feel like I'll turn her away because I said I wanted somebody who likes cats.

With that said, I do want a girl who genuinely enjoys spending time with me. Someone who is as excited to see me as I am to see her. Not necessarily someone who wants to spend EVERY waking moment with me - some time with your own friends, or time to yourself is good - but preferably someone who will make an effort, despite having a busy schedule.

This ended up being a bit longer than I originally intended it to be. Hopefully it doesn't scare you away! I definitely need to take the time to point out that despite this scary-sounding