Deemiecat, 73

never feeling that one fits in with mainstream Isn't this just the most difficult part of getting on what, I hope, will be a useful tool in my journey to find 'my' guy. I've been in love with the 'man in my mind' for over 15 years, but he still hasn't found me, nor I, him. I don't know what he looks like, but I feel he is always with me. I would like to actually MEET him, though! I am a consummate nurturer, and I know I will enhance his life. I was married 26 years, have been single for 15, have 3 grown children,and first grand child on the way. All my children are college grads, no drama, no bad backgrounds, etc. Just regular, sweet people. It is great being a mom, but want to finally feel my man's love before I leave this world. I like to dance, stay active, and work full-time as only assistant for three attorneys. If I can have fun AND learn, it is a win-win. Sometimes, it is just fun to HAVE FUN!