Ladybluebird, 56

Lets get this out of the way first, so no one get's their time wasted. I'm looking for a lover and a friend and a companion. My kids have a father, so I'm not looking for another one for them. I also am capable of taking care of myself and my children. So, not looking for a meal ticket or a sugar daddy. What I can't do is hold myself at night and listen to the rain. I can't take romantic walks in the snow. I can't share a funny joke with myself. And I sure can't do other "adult" stuff alone.. Well, I can, but it's not quite as fun as it is with a partner, ya know?

I am a geek, wear glasses, and have fought with my weight all of my life. (I'm kind of fluffy) At 40, the hair is starting to gray and smile lines are forming. I would love to have a man to hold my hand and enjoy what life has left to offer. Someone who will enjoy searching for adventures, keep me on my toes and live to laugh with me. Once we are old and gray, I would love for him to be sitting with me on a porch swing, watching a sun set, enjoying the memories of our life together... (WHILE we are in the midst of plotting our next geriatric escapade.)

I love to ride my motorcycle, reading books, gardening. LOVE the Red Sox, SciFi, Dancing with the Stars, Law and Order. Thunderstorms are a turn on, and so is sitting and talking about life. Most of all, I love to spend time with my two beautiful children.

I can change my own oil, know how a hammer works, and I am not afraid to get a little dirty. But love having doors opened for me and getting help with my coat.