Maclasch, 38

I identify as queer. In a partner, I need someone with similar interests and beliefs. Emotionally, I'm pretty independent and I need potential partners to be that way too. That doesn't mean I'm not here for you, however it does mean I don't do well in relationships where one partner is overly clingy. I hate talking on the phone. I'd much rather hang out with you! I'm not looking to get married. I don't think you can limit love to one person, forever. I would never want to tie someone to me or vice versa. Love should be enjoyed for it's duration, and put aside easily when it passes, without the drama of divorce. So in the last year I've decided to move away from exclusivity in relationships. In spite of this however, I don't do much dating much less date multiple partners, though I'm totally cool with it. :] My ideal relationship would have to be open and polyamorous.
I think that love is a friendship caught on fire. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone who I wasn't friends with before things became intimate. I am a fiction writer. I don't paid. I like parties. You too? Why don't we kick it at one together?
I love music, dancing, karaoke, and beer. I especially like all of those things together (though I rarely have money to go out). In a partner, I want someone to hang out with, someone to talk to, but not someone to live with. After a good time, I need to go home and be by myself. I hate to watch the news or talk too much about politics, because I feel it separates people, but I do have some definite political views. I consider myself a Libertarian Anarchist. One of these days, I hope to either own my own farm, my own business, or join a band (hopefully all 3). I am an animal person. I'm not a flatterer. I say what I mean, and I mean what I say. If I compliment you, you'll know I mean it. I'm not sweet. I'm fair, and mostly kind. I respect all people until they give me a reason not to. I find it hard to understand why anyone wou