Ockgal, 45

Shy, odd gal seeks understanding, goofball match! Hi. I'm Lisa. I'm 35, vegetarian (20 years), live with my mom & pets, don't drive and no longer work. I have Social Anxiety Disorder (therapy & meds didn't work) so I'm very shy in social situations. I am Pansexual (aka gender-blind) but usually prefer girls. I've got very little trust for people, but still hoping there's a good match for me out there.

My types: Butch girls, dorky, chubby, silly, kid at heart, non-judging, knows how it feels to be the outcast, has been hurt in a relationship & can relate to that, caring, honest, loyal, monogamous, truthful, patient, likes how I am & doesn't wanna change me, understands I've only been in ONE relationship & intimacy is something I don't intend to rush into, quiet at first but quirky enough to make me feel comfortable.

I have only met a few people from online. I need to be able to feel a connection before even considering offline meeting. I've recently been dumped after a 3.5 year long-distance relationship with a FtM trans guy who made promises, gained my trust & broke my heart by leaving me (both times running on to the next person who always happens to be a male). Even though he hurt me, he will always have a place in my heart.

Stuff I like: Goth/punk styles, vampires, zombies, playing with toys at the store, Resident Evil movies, The Lost Boys movie, Madonna, Courtney Love, The Beatles, NIN, Depeche Mode, 80s, the Kennedy family, English accents, nature, animals, etc.

Please don't bother messaging me if:
-You have a problem with how I look or anything I've said here.
-You aren't a patient person. I'm not jumping into a meeting.
-You're looking for someone who will put out.
-You have or want kids. I'm not parent material & feel it's better not to get attached to someone's kids in case things don't work out.
-You like to hunt or fish. If you eat meat, that's not a huge issue, but I just couldn't be with a hunter/fisher.
-You're married or separated o