Thecheshirecats, 49

an all around geek who needs a guy who can speak her language w/o a klingon/english dictionary. i like lots of things. i am pretty much an "all of the above" kind of geek (and proud of it!)... i like wars and trek, anime, manga, rpgs (table top and larp), vampires, harry potter, movies, books, music (oingo boingo!!!), lotr, some comics, video games (ps2 and wii), disneyland/ disney, and on...and a goth (on the perky side... emo makes me nauseous). i'm a big of a big kid at heart but i can be very serious too. i love games that involve dice, character sheets, tokens, controllers, and so on... but not the kind that involve hearts! i love film and was on my way to getting my certificate for becoming an editor in film before i took the mommy track (it was a choice and nothing i was forced into).

i work with kids with special needs (mainly autism) and have a lot of patience but need a guy who isn't going to constantly rely on it.

i need some stability but enjoy some spontaneity. i don't mind paying when i can, but can't afford to have a guy that can't do the same. monogamy is a must! i am not looking for a casual friendship or open relationship.

no drugs. no drama. smoking is ok if you'll do it away from the kids. drinking is fine as long as you're not getting drunk in front of the kids...