Wendyl1965, 59

I'm Wendy, a mother of two. I owned my own dog grooming salon for years but decided to move down south for a slower paced life style. I love standard poodles. My daughter is 21 and my son is about to be 11. I recently found out my husband of 25 years has cheated on me again. And is planing on remarrying the women he has only shortly been seeing. I've forgiven him in the past but i realize he will never change. We are in the process of getting a divorce. And i am destroyed. Im a very warm, and caring person. I always tend to put others before my needs. My husband was an intellectual, who was into all kinds of odd religions . All he cared about was himself. He put his self before his children and me. I've missed out on a lot of my children's best times, and he has hurt them aswell as me many of times. I Can't correct all of the mistakes i've made or the d*mnage our relationship has done to our family. But i hope to find someone who will be at first my friend, and show me what its like to have someone who loves me and would do anything for me. Who has no problem showing their feelings and is sincere . All i've done in my life was support my family and him. I want someone who will be my equal. And who wants a long and deep friendship, and will respect me enough to wait until me and my husband are divorced for anything even remotely romantic. I just want to find a friend at the moment. Someone whos dorky and fun...Light hearted..